Why pay someone to do something you can easily do yourself?
When I became a professional photographer, I have to admit that this mantra carried over into my own personal family photography.
I take professional pictures of people?! Of course I should be able to do the same for my own family!
Confession #1. It’s a lot harder to photograph your own family, especially if you want to be in the picture yourself.
I’ve tried the timer method. The remote control method. The “educate someone in 2 minutes everything you know about shooting in manual and composition” method. Unfortunately, it never ever ends up as good as the work I do for other people… there’s just something about needing a real eye to guide things along, and the help of a photo coach.
Confession #2. I need to admit my limitations.
I already came to the acceptance last year that I couldn’t take my own family picture. I happily had the opportunity to work with another professional photographer where they did the photography 🙂 The results were miles ahead of what I could have achieved on my own, and I treasure the opportunity to have those lifestyle images of Ben and I (we were a family of two at that time 🙂 ) I will continue to use another professional for our family pictures from now on. I value good photography enough to admit that I can’t achieve the quality I want on my own.
However, with the arrival of our first baby, I fully believed that I would and could get spectacular images of my own child…
Confession #3. I need to admit my limitations.
After having a baby, I faced two major obstacles.
1. I did not account for the surprise of being critically exhausted, physically hampered with a c-section recovery, or the emotional drain on my ambition and creativity. I had dreamed up a series of beautiful and personal shoots for my own newborn. None of them were even attempted.
2. I’m not a talented newborn photographer! There! I said it! I just do NOT have the talent for this type of photography. At all. I don’t work well with babies, I don’t enjoy this type of shoot, I don’t have enough patience for all the time and tricks involved with getting the perfect set up… and when I threw my own child into the mix it was even worse!
Looking back, I wish that I would have hired someone.
I wish I would have found one of those wonderfully talented newborn photographers who DO have that talent, and booked a session with them. It would have been so much easier on me, and I would actually have some beautiful images of a time that I will never be able to recapture again.
Confession #4. Why do I teach photography classes?
If I am a professional photographer, why would I teach other people how to use their cameras and take great pictures? Why would I teach others how to “Do it Yourself”? Isn’t that a formula for losing photography business?
The honest life truth, is that we don’t have access to a professional photographer for every event in our life. We likely won’t have them on hand when our child takes their first steps, when we have family birthday parties, the first day of school, family vacations, Christmas morning, during all our fun family activities, when you come home from church one week and just look at how nicely dressed everyone is and know it deserves a picture… Yet all of these events are deserving of great photography.
My goal is to teach others to DIY for the events that you CAN, as well as encourage others to admit your limitations for the times you CAN’T.
Confession #5. I need to admit my own limitations. I can’t do it all.
There seems to be a pattern here of something I need to work on! 🙂 I love this blog, and want it to be a place of inspiration and education to creative minded people. I have realized, that it is becoming increasingly difficult for me to give it the consistency that it needs. Therefore, I am happy to begin to share the load!
There will be an additional new contributor each week for a new series called “One and a Thousand” that I will be starting this week as well. Who will be the contributor? It could be YOU 😉 More to come later!