How do you feel when you do something wrong?
Of course we can feel wrong for big things, but we can also feel wrong for everyday seemingly small stuff we tell ourselves we’re “wrong” for…
Things like,
Getting angry.
Feeling jealous.
Doing a task differently than someone else does it.
Not being where we want to be in life and goals.
Being too much
Being too different
Not being enough
Not meeting your parents approval. Or your partners, or your kids, or your friends…
Not fitting in for whatever reason…
This is a really dumb list.
Yet, it feels quite familiar to the infinite amount of ways I have felt “wrong” in my life. And when I feel wrong, I feel small, unloved, separated, and unhappy…
In essence, I suffer.
Being wrong, is a judgement.
Judgement is part of the black and white thinking we all learn in our various conditioning. But the thing is, what if we aren’t wrong? What if there was more space than we realized to be and do things in our own way?
It’s easy to get caught up in black and white thinking. This is the home of the ego and the voice of judgement that lives in our mind.
I don’t know about you, but this is a hard place to live. In this place, love is conditional, peace only comes when everything is going the way you want it to, and since we don’t have control over the external world, it’s also quite fragile.
In this weeks Co Create Podcast episode I’m going to share a simple story with you that can help us unlearn this dualistic thinking and see the world with more spaciousness rather than judgement.
There’s room for so much more of everything.
More love, uniqueness, variety of thinking and doing, and most of all, there’s much more room for ALL PARTS OF YOU. No part of you is wrong.
You are a creator!
Feel, be, see, say, and do.
The light in me honors the light in you.
Namaste,
Brooke